>I got some bad news today.  Some really, capital B capital N Bad News.  The kind of news that makes me question god, the universe, and the basic fairness of life.  I’m still reeling – I don’t know that I even have the tools to describe how I feel.  And it’s not about me.  It’s about a dear, dear old friend and her family, a dear old friend who is a good woman, a good wife, a good mother, and a good friend, who doesn’t deserve the hand life has dealt her. 

Life’s not fair.  It’s not, and anyone who tells you different is a liar.